Relocation entails change; leaving certainty for uncertainty. Children would most likely hate the fact they have to say goodbye to their friends and even a spouse might show less enthusiasm concerning the move when she starts to consider all the work involved.
Here are a few tips on making your relocation easier for you and your entire family.
- Find Out All You Can about Your Destination
Gather as much information as you can about the country and city you are moving to. You need all the information you can get about the history, culture, economy, lifestyle, education system, social amenities, tax system, healthcare, banking, and all the other things you need to know about the place.
Consult books and use the internet for your research. Asking people who have lived in the destination country is also a good way to obtain information. Don’t rely solely on travel magazines and brochures; remember their goal is to promote their business.
In-depth knowledge about your destination can help inspire your reluctant family. Researching about the country in advance also helps you prepare for eventualities.
- Take A Family Trip to Your Destination
If you can afford it, visit your destination country before the move; this is necessary if you do not know much about your destination country. A holiday gives you a feel of what to expect; it will also let you test your abilities and see how you can cope. Bear in mind that people are more positively oriented during vacations and this might make you oblivious to how different it would be if you live there permanently. That is why periods with a fewer number of tourists is the best time to go on this test trip.
During your vacation, connect with people who are from your country who already live in your destination country and find out all you need to know about subjects like healthcare and housing systems. Also find out the best way to move your things to your new home; this will save you from the stress that comes with relocation.
- Start Learning the Destination Country’s Language
If a different language is spoken in your destination country, start learning the language before moving. This would help integrate your family into the culture and practices of the locals faster and make the whole process easier.
Your children might be able to learn the language, even faster than you and your spouse. Research shows that children learn new languages faster than adults. Download tools which can help you learn a foreign language and share them with your family.
- Do the Math
A trip to the destination country before the final move allows you to weigh your options. By staying there for a few weeks with your family you get to have a real estimate of what the cost of living is. Compare it to the income your potential job might provide. That way you can weigh the lifestyle you would be leaving behind and compare it to the one you are likely to have in your new destination.
Will the move enhance your career? Research shows that 50.3% of people who relocate do it for career advancements. Will it enable you save more? A vital thing to do is calculate all your expenses for the month and see if your income covers them; find out how much you can save and if moving will be an advantage.
- Research the Education System
If you have children who are of school age, it is important to know about the educational system. Find out all you can about the educational stages your children will be admitted to and the type of curriculum they would be taught with and what the language of instruction is.
Try as much as you can to carry your family along by explaining to them why you should move. Highlighting the positives of relocation is a good way to calm their anxieties. Learn as much as you can about the laws of your destination country.